I am intrigued by BDSM upon inventing my sex toy and going into the underground world of all things sexual and erotic. Having the perception that only hard core, biker types were involved in this fascinating underworld that I have arrived in, I was presently surprised by the mundane types that participate in this lifestyle. From every walk of life, every shape and size, sexual orientation, and occupation, the BDS&M lifestyle community comes from. Some actors are hardcore, some enjoy a softer approach, and some people live it 24/7.
Intrigued by the metal objects I sold, because many products are actual medical devices, I was hooked. Other products are specifically designed not for the faint of heart, but for those that enjoy the endorphine release when slapped, smacked, hit, whipped, or flogged. Before I entered the scene I thought, “no way!” Now however, I have emerged with a more unique sense of what is trying to be accomplished. According to Ross (2012) the whole BDS&M community are consensual adults trying to express themselves. Whether it be a subordinate or a dominant, their needs are to be met in a purely consensual way.
I have found out that since I have a sub there is a more emotional component to having a dom/sub relationship. Everything that is done is to be enjoyed by both parties, with one party having their needs fulfilled over another. I was pleased to be able to explore various dungeons and learned that I loved to be flogged and love to flog. I learned that I love to use a metal prostate massager, loved to be blind folded and blind folding others, love to be teased and hurt in the process. It is actually fun but can hurt. I have a low tolerance for pain, but still like some of the passion and uniqueness of all that comes with dungeons and BDS&M. After being flogged I often am so sweaty and hot…. I guess there are a lot of endorphines being released after my little beating. Obviously, after flogging others it is apparent that I was into it as well. I love flogging the buttocks and groin area, the pressure gets my subs really aroused and excited. This is fun, consensual and not threatening, but refreshing.
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Reference
Ross, A. D. (2012). Revisiting the body in pain: The rhetoric of modern masochism. Sexuality & Culture, 16(3), 230-240. doi:http://dx.doi.org/10.1007/s12119-011-9121-2